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Church Leaders to Tackle
the Stigma of Mental Illness

BY BOB SMIETANA                                                                                         ©2013 USA Today

The Rev. Frank Page, former president of the Southern Baptist Convention, was getting ready to work in the yard in the fall of 2009 when the phone rang. His daughter was on the line. 

Daddy, I love you, she said. Tell Mama and the girls I love them, too. 

Then she was gone. 

Melissa Page Strange, 32, took her own life just after hanging up the phone with her dad. "I do not want you to imagine what that is like," he said. 

For years, Page did not share the painful details of Melissa's death, fearing that some Christians might speak ill of her if they knew. Mental illness and suicide were taboo topics for many churches, seen as a kind of spiritual failure. 

But that may be starting to change. 

Page and several other Baptist leaders plan to meet in Dallas this spring to address mental illness. The meeting was prompted by the Newtown, Conn., school shooting and has gained more urgency since the suicide of Matthew Warren, 27-year-old son of California megachurch pastor Rick Warren. 

Matthew Warren's suicide last month has prompted a number of evangelical leaders to talk about how churches can better help those dealing with mental illness in their congregations. 

Page, now president of the convention's Nashville-based executive committee, is telling his daughter's story in a forthcoming book called Melissa

He hopes the book will help other families who are grieving from suicide. He also hopes to take away some of the stigma and shame that surrounds mental illness. "There is a sense that everything you have tried has failed," he said. 

The Rev. Bill Ritter, author of Take the Dimness of My Soul Away: Healing After a Loved One's Suicide, said people affected by mental illness often steer clear of church. Some feel ashamed and others are just overwhelmed. 

"For as much as we talk about the church as the place you turn when life is falling apart--the reality is that people often stay away from church when life is falling apart," he said. 

Ritter was pastor of First United Methodist Church in Birmingham, Mich., in the early 1990s when his 27-year-old son, Bill, took his own life. A few weeks after the funeral, Ritter talked about his son's struggles in a sermon. 

Sharing his story made it easier for other people in the church to talk about how mental illness had affected their own families, he said. "You can't heal what you can't name," he said. 

Ed Stetzer, president of Nashville-based LifeWay Research, wants to see more churches discuss mental illness openly. A longtime friend of Warren's and Page's, he knew of Matthew Warren's struggles with depression, which resisted treatment. 

In a blog post after learning of Matthew's suicide, Stetzer wrote about how mental illness has affected his own family. Several of his relatives have taken their lives, as did a parishioner in a church that he served as a young pastor. "We need to stop hiding mental illness," Stetzer said.


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